He tells you you’re being “insecure.” He says he’s just “looking.” But the algorithm doesn’t make mistakes, it is actively training him to find you boring.
In the old days, if your partner stared at someone for far too long in a coffee shop, you’d call it out. So why do we let them do it for two hours a night under the covers?
In this episode of Every Shade, Nina stops the cap on digital infidelity.
We’re breaking down:
- how the AI is programmed to tempt,
- how “liking” became the new “eyeing,”
- and why it might be time to have an uncomfortable conversation.
Is the algorithm designed to tempt you? Or are we just paranoid?
It’s a rant. I am not a licensed therapist. Enjoy with discretion.
Until next time, it’s Every Shade.
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Every Shade
Short - because it's a RANT! And entertaining, well....!
This is a space for minds curious to explore the depths of societal narratives. Naysayers are most welcome.
The Every Shade experience is your sanctuary for unheard narratives to be brought to the forefront with humour, empathy and tough love - the kind your grandma gave!
Every Shade is hosted by Nina, banker turned entrepreneur. She discusses lived experiences from life as a Black exec and a travelling sales(wo)man!
She also gives insight into the perspectives of the 'others'; pleasant and/or bewildering lessons from life in Europe and across Asia and darn near everything that gives her reason to pause - human foibles...foiblessss.
Every Shade is more than just a podcast; it’s a community where every shade of human emotion and experience is acknowledged, explored, and celebrated.
Learn more about Nina and what drives her - https://voueeskin.com/about-vouee-skin/
Short - because it's a RANT! And entertaining, well....!
This is a space for minds curious to explore the depths of societal narratives. Naysayers are most welcome.
The Every Shade experience is your sanctuary for unheard narratives to be brought to the forefront with humour, empathy and tough love - the kind your grandma gave!
Every Shade is hosted by Nina, banker turned entrepreneur. She discusses lived experiences from life as a Black exec and a travelling sales(wo)man!
She also gives insight into the perspectives of the 'others'; pleasant and/or bewildering lessons from life in Europe and across Asia and darn near everything that gives her reason to pause - human foibles...foiblessss.
Every Shade is more than just a podcast; it’s a community where every shade of human emotion and experience is acknowledged, explored, and celebrated.
Learn more about Nina and what drives her - https://voueeskin.com/about-vouee-skin/Listen on
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